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Embracing Your Greatness and Overcoming Self-Limiting Beliefs

Zach touchon accept your greatness change you challenge #fullgreatness

In my work as a coach and consultant, I recently had a valuable conversation with a client that shed light on the common struggle of self-limiting beliefs. Here's the essence of our discussion and the important lesson it taught us.


1. The Misperception of Limits

My client initially didn't come across as someone held back by limiting beliefs. In fact, he appeared as an outlaw and a rebel. However, as we delved deeper into his mindset, it became clear that sometimes our perception of having a limited mindset is rooted in our reluctance to accept our own greatness. It's essential to acknowledge your achievements and not equate a lack of overachievement with limited beliefs.


2. The Analyzer's Challenge

As analyzers, both my client and I tend to set extremely high expectations for ourselves. We've achieved the seemingly impossible before, which can lead to unrealistic standards. Paradoxically, this can hinder our ability to enjoy the journey itself. The first breakthrough we aimed for was embracing greatness, recognizing that we are the ones who set our own limits.


3. The Impatience of Overachievement

Overachievers often struggle to savor small victories and grow impatient in their pursuit of success. This impatience can result in significant unhappiness. We likened it to racing through a triathlon without appreciating the scenery. Success, like fruit growing on a tree, takes time. To truly enjoy the end result, we must appreciate the journey, one step at a time.


4. Taking Action to Overcome Fear

Fear can be a formidable obstacle. It manifests in many forms—fear of failure, shame, or the unknown. It's essential to confront these fears. As we discussed, the first step is acknowledging that it's okay to "suck" initially. Failure only happens when we make an effort, and this process starts with taking those baby steps.


5. The Power of Intention

While some say "nothing is impossible," life's trajectory is more like an arrow. It can only go where you aim it. So, it's crucial to set your sights on your desired destination, much like shooting for the bullseye.


6. Seeking Support and Coaching

For those serious about making a change, seeking coaching and support is invaluable. The journey to overcome self-limiting beliefs is often easier with a trusted guide by your side.


In the end, it's crucial to recognize that the only limits we have are the ones we place on ourselves. By accepting our greatness, savoring the journey, confronting fear, and taking intentional steps, we can break free from self-limiting beliefs and achieve remarkable success. It all starts with that first courageous step.


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